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      <title>Tax Tips for Taxpayers: Options for Paying Taxes to the IRS</title>
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      <description>How to Pay Taxes: Taxpayers Have Several Options for Paying Their Taxes to the IRS The IRS has provided the following tips for taxpayers who wish to make a tax payment. IRS Tax Tip 2019-07 The IRS offers several payment options where taxpayers can pay immediately or arrange to pay in installments. Taxpayers can pay [..]
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                    The IRS has provided the following tips for taxpayers who wish to make a tax payment.
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  IRS Tax Tip 2019-07

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                    The IRS offers several payment options where taxpayers can pay immediately or arrange to pay in installments. Taxpayers can pay online, by phone, or with their mobile device and the IRS2Go app. Taxpayers should pay in full whenever possible to avoid interest and penalty charges.
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                    Anyone wishing to use a mobile device should remember they can access the 
    
  
  
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      <description>Tax Preparers Should Look Out for These Signs That a Criminal Stole Information The IRS has provided the follow tips for tax preparers and says they should look out for these warnings signs of a potential data breach. IRS Tax Tip 2018-152 Tax professionals should be alert to the subtle signs of data theft. The [..]
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                    The IRS has provided the follow tips for tax preparers and says they should look out for these warnings signs of a potential data breach.
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  IRS Tax Tip 2018-152

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                    Tax professionals should be alert to the subtle signs of data theft. The IRS and its 
    
  
  
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                    Cybercriminals often leave very few signs of their intrusion. A tax preparer might not even realize that the cybercriminal stole client data until a fraudulent tax return was filed with the information, and their client becomes an ID theft victim. This is one more reason tax professionals should use strong security protections to prevent data theft from occurring.
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      <description>What is Divorce Mediation? A question often asked of this St. Louis divorce mediator.  This article explains the definition of divorce mediation with an example and touches on some of the differences between divorce mediation and litigation. 
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                    Imagine that there’s a husband and wife. Husband and wife have tried to fix their marriage, but to no avail.  For their own reasons, they’ve decided that it would be better for everyone if they get divorced.  They have children, a business and they are active members of their community.
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                    The spouses are still on speaking terms even through they don’t agree on everything.  Each is comfortable expressing their concerns &amp;amp; making decisions for themselves.  They find it important to handle the divorce in a private and amicably way.
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                    Most people are only familiar with the litigated divorce. The litigated divorce is where each spouse hires an attorney. The attorneys require upfront money (called a retainer) that ranges from $1,500 – $10,000 per spouse.  The retainer gets the divorce process started in the court system.
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                    A litigated divorce can take anywhere from one to three years to complete. The legal fees add up the longer the divorce process takes.  The process takes place in the courtroom where anyone from the public can be a spectator.  The judge makes the final decisions.
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                    Divorce mediation has become much more familiar in recent years.  In this divorce process the spouses hire a divorce mediator.  In divorce mediation, all agreements and discussions take place 
    
  
  
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                    The mediation process focuses on settling the divorce.  It is an amicable and financially reasonable approach.  It focuses on understanding the issues, goal setting, brainstorming, problem-solving and settling the divorce – in a matter of months not years.
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                    Breakdown in communication is a leading cause of many divorces.  Divorcing couples often think that divorce mediation won’t work for them.  
    
  
  
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      <description>Resolving disputes in the courtroom can be costly, damaging, and on display for the entire world to see.  Most often both parties leave court feeling dissatisfied by the judge’s decision.  There are alternative ways to resolving a dispute outside the courtroom.  Mediation is one of the the most effective out-of-court methods for resolving disputes. Mediation: Power [..]
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                    Resolving disputes in the courtroom can be costly, damaging, and on display for the entire world to see.  Most often both parties leave court feeling dissatisfied by the judge’s decision.  There are alternative ways to resolving a dispute outside the courtroom.  
    
  
  
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      <description>Thanksgiving is right around the corner and with this holiday comes the big day after event – Black Friday.  Black Friday is a huge shopping day for many individuals and families.  The 2015 Black Friday and holiday shopping season gives plenty of opportunities for parents to teach their children about money – including advertising tactics [..]
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                    Setting a budget is one of the easiest ways to save money and avoid overspending. Understanding what you are shopping for and how much you are willing, or able, to spend will help you stay on budget.  Likewise, having a budget, and sticking to it, will eliminate any regrets after you’ve finished shopping.  Many families draw names for a “secret Santa” this time of year.  This is a great time to teach children about budgets.  If the limit for the secret Santa gift is $20 then have your child come up with a list of possible gifts within that budget.  Then allow your child to go to the store and shop for the gift.  Help guide them if they get off track or want to spend more than the budget.  Don’t forget to help them factor in taxes and any other expenses associated with purchasing the gift, such as wrapping paper or a gift bag.  Helping your child understand the total cost of the gift will allow them to develop their ability to consider the total cost of a purchase.  This skill is particularly helpful when they are older and making a large purchase such as a car or house.
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      <description>At Reliance Financial Services we have created a series of posts called “Avoiding Financial Mistakes During Divorce”.  This series covers the most common financial mistakes made in divorce settlements and mediated agreements.  We are covering some of the most common financial mistakes to illustrate why it is important that individuals review their overall financial picture and long-term ramifications before [..]
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      <description>At Reliance Financial Services we provide divorce financial planning services in St. Louis, Missouri.  We know the financial complexities involved in the divorce financial settlement – even when finances seem simple.  To help, we’ve created a series of posts called “Financial Divorce Advice“ which covers the most common financial issues that come up in the divorce process. [..]
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                    People going through a divorce may wish to keep the marital home.  The reasons are different for each person.  However, some of the most common include:
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                    Consider the overall financial impact of keeping the house after divorce.  A house is an asset that costs money to keep and maintain each month.  Expenses such as the mortgage, insurance, taxes, &amp;amp; lawncare can really add up.  While homes typically go up in value, they don’t usually appreciate at a greater rate than the total annual expenses.  The recurring annual expenses can take away from your ability to put funds toward retirement, savings, children’s college fund, and debt reduction.
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                    Now compare the value of the marital home to an asset such as a retirement or investment account.  Retirement and investment accounts have relatively low annual expenses and depending on the type of account they could also have annual tax expenses.  Even with these expenses, the stock market has shown that these assets tend to outpace their expenses long-term.  So it’s important to understand that even when you can afford to keep the marital house after divorce, it often comes at a price.  A qualified divorce financial expert can help you weigh the overall financial impact of keeping house after divorce.  With this information you will be better prepared to negotiate a fair divorce settlement.
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